蔡康永的 说话之道

最近看了他的节目,才知道有这本书...
然后我就去大众书局买了一本...
这是我少有"会一直看一直看"的书本...
因为非常易懂,而且又非常生活化,还有他的幽默...


读起来很舒服...还有一些小插画...
非常不错的一本书!!
=)


optimist^^

感情

从来都不会去想感情会发生什么问题,
因为我相信如果不去想,发生的几率会比较低...

我只是个感情新手,
我想要把感情简单化,
但是感情就是复杂的...

很庆幸我们没有很大的摩擦...
很庆幸我们都非常理性...

但是一件事可以把感觉弄得那么僵,
不是我想象的到得事...

既然在一起了,就没必要去想一些无聊的事情...
好纳闷啊...
怎么办呢?

optimist^^

现实 与 梦

当梦景的情景太过逼真, 会让我不小心的把梦和现实混在一起...
做了个不该有的梦,一个有关背叛的梦,一个有关爱情的梦,一个跟现实非常相像的梦...
请不要美梦成真...
谢谢!!

optimist^^

The few hours before Anothony concert

So excited that there is a popular singer to have small concert at MMU?
haha...somehow, yes...
Just 5 bucks, and we can get the chance to hear his live...
I heard that his live concert is much more better than album...
This can be proved by the show "xing guang da dao" that he participated in 2 years ago...

Haha...
Anyway...
Look forward to his concert...
Because i missed the chance to attend "ding dang" and "lin you jia" concert at MMU...
=D

optimist^^

education (thanks to dad)

Few minutes ago, there's a sudden image on my mind...
"When i was 7 or 8, my father did bought me a gaming system(don't think it is play station)"
The feeling is so strong that i really love my dad a lot...
But of course between dad and me, we won't show it directly by any action or speaking...

I feel so graceful that my dad gave me a good education...
Good education doesn't mean the top result in school or class, but it is more concern about learning...
A lot of parents, teachers, and even principals are just too concern about the result, the figure on the test paper...
They might think that the % is so important to us...
And i got to say, yes, it is important, but still, it is not the most important thing to us...

We need an education system which give us knowledge under moral...
Without moral, anything we learned is just nothing...
The knowledge that we got, we can use it to make contribution to our social, and also make disaster to our social...
Do you think the harmful foods created by a non-knowledge people?
The harmful foods consists of a lot of harmful materials which should not be taken by human, but who make those foods? Businessman? Yes, but who teach them?

Expert said, those harmful materials added into foods is suggested by those Phd people, Master Degree people...
They have the knowledge, they should not suggest those harmful chemical things be added inside foods...
Why they do so?
One reason--They have knowledge, but without moral value added...

That's why i said, i love my dad...
He taught me how to behave like a real human...
We are not the best of the social, but we do not cheat...
We are not the wealth people, but we do not buy luxury...

Thanks to my dad, he never buy a new gaming system to me after my first one...
Thanks to him, as what i can have now, my U-life and my knowledge...

optimist^^

Friends

Talking about friends...
In the age of mine, 20, we do need friends...

We need friends to have meal together...
We need friends to go out together...
We also need friends to go toilet together(just kidding:P)

We know we got to make friends, but not just 2 or 3 and mix around with them everyday...
We know we should make new friends to open up our mind on any issues...
We know that it is important to us...

But just sometime, you won't really get your friends easily...
And do not try to get friends because of u got to make new friends...
There will be an image on your mind, which your friends will just say "hi & bye" to you...
They are what we called "hi bye fren"...
Do not get misunderstanding that they are not friendly with u, because they have already show their respect on you, they say "halo" to you...

Ok...
So, friends...
That's our topic...

You got to put a lot of effort, and also time of course....on the relationship with friends...
But somehow, i prefer to put my time on study, reading and doing research...
This is not wrong, but it is "friendically" wrong that you are not putting time on your friends...

Please do remember that how you treat your friends, they will mostly treat you by that way...
There's no 100 percent thing, but if you treat your friends good, they will not treat you like "shit"...

I just dislike to make new friends because of i got to make new friends...
Making new friends should be very nature, and relax...
I don't know what's the tools to make friends, but i know it's all about heart...

Okay...
that's all i wanna share here...
On bed soon and say good night here...
=D

optimist^^

Time is flying away

Time is flying away,
First the hour and then the day;
Next the week,the month,the year,
Go away and disappear.

Time is away on the wing,
When i speak,or think,or sing.
Time is flying fast away,
Never waste time,let us say.

optimist^^